Biting through to your center of power

A lot of the advice in the I Ching, and Taoism in general, can be summarized as “be like water,” which I love.

But for this week’s Hexagram 21: Biting Through we have “vigorous measures” that must be taken at once. There’s mention of a “criminal lawsuit,” the “application of penalties,” and “disturbances of harmonious social life caused by criminals and slanderers.”

Drama!

The hexagram image is thunder and lightning. Thunder represents the just application of penalties. Lightning symbolizes the clarity needed for executing the penalties swiftly.

This fearless confrontation of obstacles ties in well with the assertive energy of Aries season.

As I mentioned in my last post, I’ve been reading The Vital Spark by Jungian analyst Lisa Marchiano, which is perfect Aries reading.

Marchiano emphasizes how empathy, care, and concern won’t help us when we are being preyed upon and face situations where we need to do our own Biting Through:

Standing up for ourselves will likely engender conflict—not just with our romantic partners but with our parents, siblings, co-workers, friends, neighbors, and more. Many of us find such conflict uncomfortable. We value harmony and often go to great lengths to preserve peace and affinity. Yet, if we can tolerate disagreement and strife, we will be able to act from authenticity rather than from a constricted compulsion to avoid conflict.

She includes a quote from Edward Edinger:

The majority of patients in psychotherapy need to learn how to be more effectively selfish and more effective in the use of their own personal power; they need to accept responsibility for the fact of being centers of power and effectiveness.

Acting from that place of authenticity is easier said than done. I recently read The Tools by psychologists Phil Stutz and Barry Michels, which provides a practical way to tap into your inner authority in the moment by using your shadow, of all things. The authors are favorably disposed towards Jungian psychology and believe in providing effective tools that are easily learned.

They describe an exercise for you to do to obtain an image of your shadow (I use a shadow figure from a dream). Then, prior to and even during a difficult conversation or encounter, you do the following:

Imagine that you’re standing in front of an audience of one or many. See an image of your Shadow off to one side, facing you. Ignore the audience completely and focus all of your attention on the Shadow. Feel an unbreakable bond between the two of you-as a unit you’re fearless.

Together, you and the Shadow forcefully turn toward the audience and silently command them to “LISTEN!” Feel the authority that comes when you and your Shadow speak with one voice.

We’re in the middle of a two week period between eclipses which can feel liminal and sometimes draining.

Mars and Saturn are both in Pisces, with a conjunction soon to form. This combination of archetypes is the very definition of Biting Through.

It’s an ideal time to bite through to the truth of a challenging situation you are facing, especially in the Pisces and Aries areas of your life.

What steps can you take to overcome any obstacles that stand in your way?

REFERENCES:

The Vital Spark: Reclaim Your Outlaw Energies and Find Your Feminine Fire by Lisa Marchiano, LCSW

The Tools: Transform Your Problems Into Courage, Confidence, and Creativity by Phil Stutz and Barry Michels

I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

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You will NOT be assimilated

It is not uncommon these days to buy followers online or to use strategies for inflating the number of followers that have nothing to do with true connection.

Leaders sometimes create followings by “force or cunning, by conspiracy or by creating factions.” That sounds like today’s headlines but is actually from the commentary of Hexagram 17, Following in the I Ching, our hexagram host for this next week of Aries.

Hexagarm 17 even warns that “joyous movement can lead to evil consequences.”

Before charging forth and using that fiery martial energy of Aries on external followings, one is advised to use it to tune into one’s inner self. That is why the image of this hexagram describes the importance of a noble one at nightfall going inside for renewal and rest.

Jungian analyst Lisa Marchiano writes in The Vital Spark (perfect reading for Aries season, by the way):

But if we don’t have sufficient access to independence and fire, our tendency to focus on others can cause us to lose touch with ourselves and the people we were meant to become. We can become alienated from our souls, which leaves us feeling depleted and inauthentic. Then, we must return to ourselves by reuniting with our Lilith nature, our own “unbridled life urge which refuses to be assimilated.”

Jung wrote about how our personalities become diminished when we adapt to others, but those discarded parts aren’t lost forever: “Many—far too many—aspects of life which should also have been experienced lie in the lumber room among dusty memories; but sometimes, too, they are glowing coals under gray ashes.”

There is an eclipse this week duing the Libra full moon. Eclipse energies play out over the course of six months and tend to make it more difficult to cling to certainty in that area of your life. As Marchiano says, “Being connected with the central fire can be exhilarating, but it can also be terrifying.”

Therefore this is a perfect time to take a look at the lumber room floor, so to speak, and connect with the vital sparks awaiting in the glowing coals of your unlived life.

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I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

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The audacity of innocence

Yesterday I saw a robin hopping around in the yard for the first time this year.

For me, nothing says spring more than the return of birds who fly south for the winter.

Spring migration reaches its peak in May, with hundreds of different kinds of birds migrating through. I often think of how wonderfully audacious it is that there are so many different kinds of birds.

Speaking of audacious, this is the start of Aries season and the beginning of the new astrological year.

Hexagram 25: Innocence of the I Ching is our hexagram host for the beginning of Aries.

Because Aries is a masculine fire sign ruled by Mars, the audacious part fits, but at first glance it might not seem to correlate well with innocence.

The image of this hexagram is thunder underneath the heavens: as above, so below.

As Wilhelm says in his translation:

In springtime when thunder, life energy, begins to move again under the heavens, everything sprouts and grows, and beings receive from the creative activity of nature the childlike innocence of their original state.

The Sun is exalted in Aries because Aries is the beginning of the solar half of the year where there is more light than darkness. By contrast, Saturn is exalted in Libra because it begins the Saturnian half of the year where there is more darkness than light.

Britten LaRue, in her new book Living Astrology, writes that Aries is often perceived as “blustery in its self-possession.” She provides a necessary corrective to this stereotype:

It’s important to understand that Aries is born out of the collective dream from Pisces. The precociousness of Aries grows from the wells of love inherent in the sign before it. We need the audacity of our springtime Aries self to catapult our dreams forward. It’s the audacity of being a child of this world before we’ve known hurt or grief or danger.

She also provides some questions that are worth pondering in the week ahead:

What would you do with such audacity?

What would you do today if you could trust that you can always start again?

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I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

Living Astrology by Britten LaRue

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Choosing to choose

Grace has been a favorite word of mine since childhood.

When I was born my grandmother gave my parents a framed print of an explanation of what the name Anita means and it hung on the wall of my childhood bedroom. Anita means grace and that resonated with me.

So I was happy to see that Hexagram 22, Grace, of the I Ching, is our hexagram host for this next week. It describes grace as “beauty of form” and that which brings order and pleasantness.

The image is of fire at the foot of the mountain. This shows how grace has limitations, however. Fire here does not shine far; grace only brings success in small things and should be used sparingly. It’s the strong element of the mountain that takes the lead and is the decisive factor.

I’m reminded of one of my favorite James Hollis quotes:

I sometimes call myself “a recovering Nice Guy.” We were all raised to be nice, really nice. A reflexive “niceness” is a pathogenic loss of connection to the soul, and is not nice. The opposite of such a reflexive niceness is called authenticity, or integrity.

The planetary archetype associate with grace is Venus. Appropriately, Venus is exalated in Pisces and will be joining the Pisces party in about a week.

The opposite of Venus is Mars, which will enter Pisces at the end of the month.

The combination of Mars and Venus can help us turn niceness into authenticity and integrity. If you look at where both planets are in your natal chart, you will see what that specifically looks like for you.

From a typology perspective, developing a stronger connection between your hero (dominant) functon and inferior (anima/animus) function creates more integrity and authenticity. Jungian analyst John Beebe, my favorite typologist, says individuation is ultimately about integrity, not about the transformation of character.

With Saturn, the planet of responsibility, in Pisces for two more years or so, and soon Venus and Mars to join Saturn and the Sun there, it seems fitting to close with what Jungian analyst and astrologer Christina Becker says:

In life, being authentic means that you own your life and take responsibility for it, and this bears a striking similarity to the definition of integrity. Being inauthentic suggests an “unowned” life. The German philosopher Heidegger suggests that “authenticity is a matter of choosing to choose, that is, of making one’s choices one’s own and so being answerable and responsible for one’s life.

Remember it’s OK, though, to add a dash of grace once in a while.

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I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

The Broken Mirror by James Hollis

The Heart of the Matter: Individuation as an Ethical Process by Christina Becker

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A watched pot always boils

Have you ever put on a pot of water on the stove to boil, walked away for a bit, then totally forgot about it until the pot boiled over? It’s possible I’ve done that a time or two (ahem).

That metaphor is inherent in Hexagram 63 in the I Ching, which is called “After Completion.” It consists of the trigrams Water over Fire, which symbolizes the image of water rising above fire. This hexagram represents the idea of reaching a state of completion or fulfillment after a period of effort and struggle.

Conditions are perfect and there is equilibrium. That also means, however, the slightest inattention can cause disorder to begin again, so caution is warranted. As Wilhelm says in his translation, “…it is only in regards to details that success is still to be achieved.” Constancy bears fruit.

This is similar to when a pot is above the fire waiting to boil and there is a meeting of opposites: water and fire. In the best scenario, a small amount of the water is transformed into vapor, and the rest remains behind to cook whatever is inside the pot. But if you get bored and stop paying attention even for a few minutes, the pot overflows, there is a noisy splashing of water, and the pot and food can get scalded.

This resonates with the end-of-cycle energy of Pisces, where one might reflect on the lessons learned, the growth achieved, and the closure of certain chapters of life. Pisces is the end of the astrological new year; the new year will begin with Aries.

Pisces is a time when emotions may run deep, and its energy encourages introspection, spiritual exploration, and connection with the unconscious. It favors embracing the endings and transitions that come with the conclusion of a cycle, while also looking forward to the possibilities of new beginnings as the wheel of the zodiac turns.

I’m reading Marion Woodman’s book Addiction to Perfection and she writes about how journaling “fulfills the need to pour out the heart” and is “crucial to recognizing those parts of ourselves that we have shunned.” Pisces season is a perfect time to start looking at those neglected parts of us, so that we don’t have a boil over, so to speak.

“Journal writing is a way of taking responsibility for finding out who I AM.” There’s no better time to start doing that than now, before the astrological new year begins. May your cup runneth over (instead of your pot).

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I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

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We are family

Once again we have a perfect pairing of an I Ching hexagram with Pisces season: Hexagram 37: The Family.

This hexagram represents harmony within a group or family, emphasizing the importance of cooperation and mutual support. As Wilhelm says in his translation: “When the family is in order, all the social relationships of mankind will be in order.”

Pisces is a mutable water sign ruled by Jupiter. Pisces highlights the significance of emotional connections, understanding, and nurturing relationships. Host Jupiter is currently in Venus’ sign of Taurus, which encourages this all the more.

This time period encourages us to focus on our connections with others, and to cultivate empathy and understanding within our social circles and communities.

Last night I was reading about how each year around 100,000 Japanese tourists visit Prince Edward Island in Canada because it is the home of the fictional character Anne of Green Gables. According to Japanese Buddhist leader Daisaku Ikeda, Japanese people love these novels because Anne is an orphan who gets adopted by an unmarried middle-aged brother and sister who live together on Prince Edward Island. The Japanese are moved by her efforts to form a real family and community:

The Japanese identify so strongly with her efforts precisely because they invest so much energy in the same cause: forging strong familial and communal bonds. That Anne was able to accomplish this in the absence of underlying biological ties is what endears her so much to the Japanese. To them, she is a true heroine.

The Power of Dao, p. 134

Venus and Mars are currently still conjoined in Aquarius. At the collective level or in your personal life, themes of justice for women, self-assertion, and/or emotional discord and disharmony may be noticeable. This can help us to maintain our individuality, which is a reminder that there is always some sort of interplay of opposites going on in our lives. Mercury, the Sun, and Saturn are all in Pisces currently and that energy is here to support us in a hexagram 37 “we are family” kind of way even as we experience Mars-Venus.

Take a look at the Aquarius and Pisces areas of life in your chart, as those are activated for you now (I can help you with this kind of analysis if you’d like).

Then reflect on the following during this next week:

Reflect on the dynamics within your family or close social circle. How do you contribute to the harmony and unity within these relationships?

How do you maintain your sense of self within the context of your relationships and social responsibilities?

How can you strengthen and nurture connections with those that are part of your “chosen” (as opposed to biological) family?

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I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

The Power of Dao: A Timeless Guide to Happiness and Harmony by Lou Marinoff

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Be like the sun at midday

It couldn’t possibly be more appropriate that Hexagram 55: Abundance of the I Ching is the one greeting us as Pisces season begins.

As this hexagram says:

“ABUNDANCE has success.

The king attains abundance.

Be not sad.

Be like the sun at midday.”

Hilary Barrett says in her translation:

In a time of Abundance you find that, despite what you have lost, there is a new charge given to you that leaves no place for sorrow or anxiety. It is not the time to hide yourself away and grieve the past. Decide what you will do, take it on, make the practical preparations and march out.

Well, then. After the Saturnian, wintry, hermit-y seasons of Capricorn and Aquarius, this is a welcome message.

Pisces is a mutable water sign ruled by Jupiter, the planet of abundance, faith, and hope.

This hexagram is comprised of the trigrams Water over Fire. Water is fluid and adaptable, while Fire is dynamic and transformative. This combination suggests a time of flowing with the currents of life, embracing change, and surrendering to the natural ebb and flow of existence – a theme that aligns with the mutable nature of Pisces.

Mercury, Mars, and Venus are still in Aquarius. Saturn is in Pisces for the next couple of years. There still is plenty of Saturnian grounding in the air to help us make those needed practical preparations prior to marching out. But as Mercury, Mars, and Venus gradually enter Pisces, you should see greater emotional depth, creativity, intuition, and compassion in the Pisces area of your life.

I know the word “abundance” is overused to the point of being trite. Phrases like “abundant mindset” can be eyeroll-inducing. Abundance, however, isn’t a quantity of anything – rather, it is a knowing that there is enough and that you are enough.

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I Ching or Book of Changes translated by Richard Wilhelm

I Ching: Walking Your Path, Creating Your Future by Hilary Barrett

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Clarity without sharpness

It’s time for the “Clinging Fire” of Hexagram 30 from the I Ching, which symbolizes the brightness, clarity, and persistence of life.

This hexagram has double the fire – in other words, a doubling of the fire trigram. There are eight times per year we get a hexagram that is a doubling like this.

Fire has no defined form but must cling to an object in order to be made bright. As Richard Wilhelm says in his translation:

Everything that gives light is dependent on something to which it clings, in order that it may continue to shine.

Thus sun and moon cling to heaven, and grain, grass, and trees cling to the earth. So too the twofold clarity of the dedicated man clings to what is right and thereby can shape the world. Human life on earth is conditioned and unfree, and when man recognizes this limitation and makes himself dependent upon the harmonious and beneficient forces of the cosmos, he achieves success.

Wilhelm goes on to talk about cows, which I appreciate as a Wisconsinite (Wisconsin is known for its dairy farms). He describes cows as “the symbol of extreme docility.” If we cultivate docility we acquire “clarity without sharpness” and find our place in the world.

We’re in the last stretch of Aquarius season. Aquarius is a Saturnian air sign, which might not seem fiery, but air signs do have a hot quality. It’s perfect timing that Mars entered Aquarius yesterday and is conjunct Pluto. This energy of Mars in the coming weeks should help encourage the Aquarian themes of innovation and progressive thinking and shed some light on new ideas. Venus will enter Aquarius in a few days, which will take some of the edge off the Mars effect.

Take care of your cows. Notice what you see in this brighter light ahead. Tend to the new insights you receive and your inner clarity will cause your light to spread farther “and penetrate the nature of man ever more deeply.”

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How can you break the mold?

Aquarius symbolizes the need for radical change and transformation. Therefore it’s appropriate that Hexagram 49: Revolution (Molting) from the I Ching is our hexagram host for the next week of Aquarius season.

Fire is included in the image, just like last week, but this time we find fire situated in the middle of a lake. Fire and water are opposites, so the two destroy each other in order that revolution may occur. Per Richard Wilhelm’s commentary:

So too in the course of the year a combat takes place between the forces of light and the forces of darkness, eventuating in the revolution of the seasons. Man masters these changes in nature by noting their regularity and marking off the passage of time accordingly. In this way order and clarity appear in the apparnetly chaotic changes of the seasons, and man is able to adjust himself in advance to the demands of the different times.

That right there makes a case for astrology; seeing what lies ahead for us archetypally helps us adjust ourselves to the situations we will face both as individuals and collectively. Just as the seasons change, so do the demands of the times, which call for social transformations.

We have three pet cockatiels, so I like that this hexagram is also called “molting.” Birds molt at least once a year, usually during the spring. It’s uncomfortable for them sometimes as the new feathers grow in. And their flying skills can be diminished as they wait for the growth of new flight feathers.

The other day we noticed that our oldest cockatiel has a fresh growth of new feathers on his head, which we found encouraging. He is still aligning himself with the energies of the seasons even in his dotage and bringing forth his best self.

Which “feathers” do you need to shed so that you can avoid stagnation and make your essence more visible?

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Strength and energy in alliance

We are about halfway through Aquarius season already and have now arrived at the Hexagram 13: People in Harmony section, which represents the essence of Aquarius.

Yesterday I heard a YouTuber mention that a formerly popular YouTuber is getting less and less views these days because the algorithm is now more egalitarian and doesn’t favor people with large number of followers. It’s more of a challenge for one single individual to stand out in a Leo-like way, which is how Aquarius, the opposite sign from Leo, prefers it.

With Pluto in Aquarius for the next 20 years, expect that egalitarianism to continue.

Aquarius is a fixed air sign ruled by Saturn. It is future focused and not about conforming to something in the past like Capricorn, the other Saturn-ruled sign. It emphasizes the new future we are pushing towards and, being an air sign, likes to expand our horizons. The Aquarius downsides are a tendency to be too ideological and feeling like an outsider. I saw a funny poll on Instagram asking which of the air signs are the most difficult to argue with: Aquarius, Leo, Scorpio, or Taurus. Aquarius was running a close second behind Taurus. I voted for Aquarius!

The image of this hexagram, after what seems like endless lakes and mountains, finally brings some fire to the situation: it is Heaven over Fire. This seems appropriate for an air sign like Aquarius. As Richard Wilhelm describes it in his translation:

Just as the luminaries in the sky serve for the systematic division and arrangement of time, so human society and all things that really belong together must be organically arranged. Fellowship should not be a mere mingling of individuals or of things – that would be chaos, not fellowship. If fellowship is to lead to order, there must be organization within diversity.

Here is some of Hilary Barrett’s commentary about the image:

Harmony btween people will not come about by forcibly amalgamating the clans; to disarm their natural defensiveness, the noble one needs first to recognize and respect identities different from his own.

Hopefully we will see a lot more of that respect during the next 20 years.

To bring this closer to home, I’ll close with a few journal prompts to consider:

*Reflect on a recent challenge and consider how collaborative efforts or a sense of fellowship could have positively influenced the outcome.

*How will your life change if the group(s) you are in expands?

*Explore ways to foster unity in your community or social circles.

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